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Hello and welcome

My name is Nicky. I work as a Systemic Coach and Constellations Practitioner​ supporting individuals and heart-led businesses to clear energetic blockages and illuminate their path forward.

I bring the whole of me to attend to the whole of my clients. The story of how I came to this work deeply informs all that I offer...

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My Journey
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My Journey

​In today's world, many people sadly have stories of burnout and breakdown; mine came after 15 years as a workaholic global brand consultant for international ad agencies. My lifestyle took a heavy toll physically, mentally and emotionally, until I finally chose to walk away. I know now how vital it is to declare a firm ‘No!’ to what no longer works as a first step to change. 

 

Initially I sought adventure and new experiences, exploring far-flung corners of this beautiful world. My travels included sailing across the Pacific, living in trees in the jungle and co-creating sustainable eco-tourism with local communities. However, I soon realised that embarking on crazy adventures to find ‘the real me’ was exciting, but no substitute for the more scary,  courageous and healing journey that starts within.

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Medicine Ways

Medicine Ways

 In my work I weave in elements from an array of wisdom ways; these are paths I follow and embody for myself in my personal and work life

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Supervision 
& Community 

1:1 & peer supervision and 'Way of Council' are ongoing anchors on my path

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Systemic & Family
Constellations

Supporting the onward flow and healthy connections in my personal and business life

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Stilling
Practices

When listening, it's amazing what you hear, when really looking, what you can see

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Daily
Writing

This is how I understand what I feel and think. A space to offload, explore & create

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Sound
Medicine 

Soothing my nervous system and re-harmonising when feeling out of sync

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Flower & Plant 
Remedies 

Emotional support in everyday life; I've been drawing on their magic for decades

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Medicine Drumming

Drum is my companion in releasing stagnant energy & supporting flow

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Energy Clearing  & Healing

Reiki, energy work, body work, breath work, EFT,     

qi gong, reflexology...

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Shamanic
Practices & Rituals 

Living in rhythm with nature and the moon, tea, drumming, tarot, astrology, journeying

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Vanventures
& Travel

Exploring near and far in my beloved van 'Myfanwy', I'm always up for an adventure

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Live well, Love fully, Laugh a lot

Precious moments, good food, belly laughs & playing Rummy with loved ones

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Creativity 
& Play

Space to do what brings me so much joy: pottery, pottering, painting, creative expression

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Teachings & Lineages

As varied as these modalities are, to me they are all different forms of soul and energy work. I am deeply grateful to all my teachers, the journeys they have taken, their dedication and devotion to their paths, and also to their teachers before them. Thank you for all your loving support.

Systemic  Constellations

Based on Bert Hellinger's work, my foundational and practitioner level trainings were in team and organisational systems with John Whittington (Coaching Constellations Ltd in 2016-2018). I have since deepened my journey with systemic & family constellations work, apprenticing and honing my craft with Lynn Stoney (Systemic Consciousness Ltd since 2018). I have also continued to layer my learning by training in other variations and dimensions of systemic work, e.g '5 Elements Constellations' with Emerson Bastos, attending programmes with Tanja Meyburgh, Jan Jacob Stam and Dees van de Hoef, Daan van Kampenhout, Stephan Hausner and many more masterful teachers. All of this is integrated and anchored by my invaluable peer practice & supervision group, from and with whom I learn so much.

The journey continues...

(150+ days training & CPD)

Life & Career Coaching

I trained as a Co-Active Coach (CTI, 2011-2015), and Career Coach (Firework Ltd, 2015), and Unconventional Coaching for Coaches, (LBD Ltd, 2016). Being coached and supervised throughout integrates my learning and reflection to ensure I continue to practice what I do cleanly and safely.

Energy Work

Level 1 Reiki training started with Suzi Garrod in 2018, continuing with Maggie Gudmundsson, The Healing Hare, in 2020, who guided and mentored me on my journey to Reiki Master and beyond. I am grateful to the continued guidance as I deepen my practice.

Sound Medicine

My introduction to sound was experiencing a tuning fork during my Reiki 1 training. Experiencing the soothing effect on my nervous system, I completed an in-depth sound practitioner training with Marko Zigon, Sonic Temple, 2020 and attended a deep and sacred medicine drum journey with Stephen Ash, College of Sound Healing. 

Flower Remedies

After decades of using flower remedies to support my emotional health, I completed my level 1 & 2 training with Celia Stewart at The Bach Centre in 2023. I am also part of the Pollinator Programme at Saskia's Essences (www.saskiasfloweressences.com). I love her essences. They support bringing awareness and shifting patterns enabling you to move forward in a safe, natural and simple way.

For a 10% discount apply code: MOSS10

Master's Degree in Business
& Social Psychology

1995-2000 I attended Universiteit Maastricht in the Netherlands, graduating with a Master's Degree in International Business, adding a focus on Social Psychology at Universidad Barcelona, Spain, in 1999. This lead the way into the world of advertising and communication that I worked in, employed and freelance, from 2000 to 2016.

Where it all began

Born to Welsh parents in Bonn, Germany, I grew up as a so-called ‘third culture kid’. I attended the British Embassy prep school and changed to the German school system where I graduated with German Abitur in 1995. After university I spent most of my working life in beautiful Hamburg, until I followed the yearning of my body and heart to move back closer to my ancestral roots.

I now live with my partner Richard just outside Bridport in West Dorset, UK. I offer my work in Bridport, Beaminster and Dorchester for in-person work and I also work online with a range of international clients (in English and German). Plus I am a happy nomad and open to collaborate where the work is needed.

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Teachers

Lineages & Teachings

As varied as these modalities are, to me they are all different forms of soul and energy work. I am deeply grateful to all my teachers, the journeys they have taken, their dedication and devotion to their paths, and also to their teachers before them. Thank you for all your loving support.

Systemic  Constellations

Based on Bert Hellinger's work, my foundational and practitioner level trainings were in team and organisational systems with John Whittington (Coaching Constellations Ltd in 2016-2018). I have since deepened my journey with systemic & family constellations work, apprenticing and honing my craft with Lynn Stoney (Systemic Consciousness Ltd since 2018). I have also continued to layer my learning by training in other variations and dimensions of systemic work, e.g '5 Elements Constellations' with Emerson Bastos, attending programmes with Tanja Meyburgh, Jan Jacob Stam and Dees van de Hoef, Daan van Kampenhout, Stephan Hausner and many more masterful teachers. All of this is integrated and anchored by my invaluable peer practice & supervision group, from and with whom I learn so much.

The journey continues...

(150+ days training & CPD)

Life & Career Coaching

I trained as a Co-Active Coach (CTI, 2011-2015), and Career Coach (Firework Ltd, 2015), and Unconventional Coaching for Coaches, (LBD Ltd, 2016). Being coached and in supervision all the way continues the deepening of my learning and reflection to ensure I continue to practice what I do safely.

Energy Work

Level 1 Reiki training started with Suzie Garrod in 2018, continuing with Maggie Gudmundsson, The Healing Hare, in 2020, who guided and mentored me on my journey to Reiki Master and beyond. I am grateful to the continued guidance as I deepen my practice.

Sound Medicine

My introduction to sound was experiencing a tuning fork during my Reiki training. Experiencing the soothing effect on my nervous system, I completed an in-depth sound practitioner training with Marko Zigon, Sonic Temple, 2020 and attended a deep and sacred medicine drum journey with Stephen Ash, College of Sound Healing. 

Flower Remedies

After decades of using flower remedies to support my emotional health I completed my level 1 & 2 training with Celia Stewart at The Bach Centre in 2023. I am also part of the Pollinator Programme at Saskia's Essences (www.saskiasfloweressences.com), I love her essences, they support bringing awareness and shifting patterns enabling you to move forward in a safe, natural and simple way.

For a 10% discount use code: MOSS10

Master's Degree in Business
& Social Psychology

1995-2000 I attended Universiteit Maastricht in the Netherlands, graduating with a Master's Degree in International Business, adding a focus on Social Psychology at Universidad Barcelona, Spain, in 1999. This lead the way into the world of advertising and communication that I worked in, employed and freelance, from 2000 - 2016

Where it all began

Born to Welsh parents in Bonn, Germany, I grew up as a so-called ‘third culture kid’. I attended the British Embassy prep school and changed to the German school system where I graduated with German Abitur in 1995. After uni I spent most of my adult working life in beautiful Hamburg, until I followed the yearning of my body and heart to move back closer to my ancestral roots.

I now live with my partner Richard just outside Bridport in West Dorset, UK. I offer my work in Bridport, Beaminster and Dorchester for in-person work and I also work online with a range of international clients (in English and German). Plus I am a happy nomad and open to collaborate where the work is needed.

Testimonials

Testimonials

"A simple but profound experience!

I have been in weekly psychotherapy for the last year but have found more answers within myself

from 2 Systemic Journaling Sessions than all of those combined!"

Lisa J,
Energy Mapping: A Path to Clarity

"I have attended several of Nicky's workshops to explore my own processes. I find Nicky's style, personality and experience of herself and the world very safe and gentle.

It is a space where I can take my own vulnerability: knowing it will be met with wisdom, nurturance and a mutual respect”

Anonymous,
Energy Mapping: A Path to Clarity

"Nicola was masterful at tuning into the bigger picture surrounding my business and enabling deep, practical insights about its purpose and way forward. Nicola brings a wonderful mix of insightful curiosity, sensitivity, gentleness and fun to create a safe and accessible space for people with very different styles and backgrounds"

Daniel S,
Soul of Business Workshop

"The sessions shed so much light on how my behaviours are influenced by something I unconsciously was carrying from the past and helped to free myself of these burdens. At times it came as conscious recognising and "rewiring", but some other times it just felt like I've not even fully understood what it was exactly I've cleared but I just felt more free and liberated.

I have felt supported, received the guidance I needed, and felt that Nicky was knowledgeable and capable of holding the space for me even when I was going through the hardest of emotions."

Iveta D,
1:1 Systemic Exploration

"It is a practice worth experiencing first hand. I felt such a connection to the other stories in the room. Nicola is very experienced and the insightful and empathetic way in which she holds space for others, made me feel safe enough to really go deep into the work. I am totally sold!"

Sarah C,
Family Constellations Workshop

"I would highly recommend Nicky. She creates a nurturing, supportive and truly safe space, completely free of judgement. She is hugely insightful, really listens and has helped me make sense of my relationship patterns much more quickly and deeply than ever happened for me in non-systemic therapy."

Fiona L,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations

"After a session, I feel clearer and more confident. I feel as though I have 'touched base' and renewed my belief in myself and my capabilities. I feel as though I have remembered the journey I'm on, and that wherever I am on it, that's where I'm meant to be and I should be kind to myself about that."

Rowena G,
Systemic Supervision

"Nicky provides a

safe space & reassuring presence

as she guides you gently through the process. I'm blown away by how much it brought of me. Such a powerful, cathartic & nourishing experience. I came away with clear actions that I've already put in place and a day later I am starting to feel the benefits of them. This has empowered me to take a really positive step forward, one I didn't even know I needed to make"

Stephanie R,
Energy Mapping: A Path to Clarity

"I would highly recommend Nicky. She creates a nurturing, supportive and truly safe space,

completely free of judgement. She is hugely insightful, really listens and has helped me make

sense of my relationship patterns much more quickly and deeply than ever happened for me

in non-systemic therapy"

Anonymous,
1:1 Systemic Coaching & Constellations

"It’s difficult to describe with words as it’s a deeply experiential experience, but I would say if you are curious to connect with yourself on a deeper level or have questions about your life or business that you are struggling to answer, this modality of exploration is transformational, gentle, powerful, light, joyful, loving. It is possibly the greatest gift you could give to yourself if you are curious about yourself and your potential. You won’t regret doing it, I know that for certain!! Once you experience it, you’ll want to do it again."

Lisa J,
Soul of Business Workshop

"An opportunity to take time out and get back in touch with yourself. It’s not just for confronting painful situations, but for simply getting to know yourself better and feeling a little lighter.

A very unique experience, lead by a deep sense of kindness between everyone in the group. Nicky’s guidance through the constellations was so in tune, she brought a calm and sense of freedom to the space that allowed me to put the everyday aside and really dig deep. I will definitely do another session to nurture this new connection I have found with my self."


Helen D,
Family Constellations Workshop

"Nicola holds a very sacred, safe and secure space, where there is no judgement only pure compassion with a generous heartfelt warmth. Her wisdom to guide and expand our world view and to see beyond the realms of the mind are simply sublime and wonderful. Nicola is wise and is much much more than a coach!!

She is a rare and wise healer, a modern alchemist who genuinely cares, and who intuitively feels with her generous heart. Nicola allows you to see outside the constraints of your mind into a more expansive world and wonderful view. Nicola is highly skilled and insightful."


Andrea L,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations

"I really enjoyed my journey to reconnect with myself and my future ambitions with Nicola. After feeling that my life was going nowhere and my mentality wavering, our chats every fortnight made me more clear-headed, mindful and confident. Being able to talk openly with Nicola and receiving a view from an external perspective, Nicola's ability to listen and give tips and exercises in swift response was immensely helpful, and has now contributed to me securing a place on a Masters abroad for next year. Thank you Nicky!"

Alex B,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations

"I am now more at peace with myself. All the things I've been learning about personal development, growth etc, now make so much more sense.Knowing what my personal values are makes such a huge difference to me. Decision making is now so much more straightforward - I can weigh my decisions based on my values. I have begun to the process of learning to slow down. To savour life more. To savour my children. It is amazing and life so much more full and vibrant! I am seeing things that I didn't see before, simply because I was too busy, too occupied in my head!"

Kevin S,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations

“ I’ve never experienced anything like it. Magical. Life-changing. Deep and light at the same time.”

CB,
Constellation Workshop

"Nicky has a gift for perception, inclusion, making a safe space, facilitating with grace and confidence, to give attendees insight into their own lives, and empathy for others"

Sue W,
Soul of Business Workshop

"Explore the Soul of your Business' does what it says! Business is made up of people, energy and ideas. This approach taps into all of these through an embodied wisdom that can't be accessed in books and manuals. You are guided firmly, gently and generously by Nicky, with her wealth of experience from the worlds of business and systemic practice. Enter with an open heart and mind, and the truth of the information you can receive, for you and your business, is priceless!"

Richard B,
Soul of Business Workshop

"Joining the family constellation circle is a profound experience of connection with other people and with the unseen web that ties us all together. It’s like having months work of therapy in one session, even if you don’t bring your own issues to the session you still receive the healing through osmosis. I’d describe the process itself as an embodiment activity where participants build a human map of a real life situation, so that the issue holder can navigate that map with help of Nicky’s guidance. Nicky is an incredibly perceptive and intuitive facilitator. She creates safe and welcoming spaces that allow participants to access vulnerable parts of themselves in a secure and grounded way. Through working with Nicky I’ve learned so much about myself, including how to accept and receive support from others. I’ve experienced my body’s wisdom and its ability to connect with the collective field, which still baffles and amazes me. This process is healing in a mysterious way. Thank you for all the profound gifts this work brings."

Megan E,
Family Constellations Workshop

"I come to Nicola for soul level conversations. I walk away from each session in awe of how much I am able to process. Her sessions awaken my curiosity and desire to delve more deeply into my life's experiences and relationships."

Haingo R,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations

"Oh gosh your coaching has supported me in so many ways. Not only in my conscious brain but also how it continues to support and nurture me spiritually and unknowingly all the time.You've helped me understand what's important to me and how these values shape everything I do. Without this understanding I wouldn't be so clear on how I want to develop my business going forward."

Clare R,
1:1 Coaching & Constellations
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